How to Set the Table

Step By Step
The first thing that goes on the table is "the charger". This is a fancy term for "the plate that goes under the dinner plate." The charger is there to protect the tablecloth, and catch any food that doesn't make it to your mouth. It's the anchor of the setting; the dinner plate rests on top of it, and you work outward from there.
The forks go to the left of the plate and their order is important--it tells you what to eat and when. (And let's face it, not everyone would know otherwise!) Starting from the outside and working in towards the plate, place the forks prongs-upward in the order they will be used--first the appetizer fork, then the big salad fork, and finally the dinner fork.
The knife rests to the right of the plate with it's sharp edge pointing inward towards the plate. This has nothing to do with safety--it just looks nice.
To right of the knife goes the spoon.
The side dish is placed to the left of the forks. There is rumor that the dish is separated from the spoon to prevent them from running away together. But unless the cow jumps over the moon I wouldn't worry.
Drinking glasses go on the right of the spoon. If there is a wineglass, it should go at the top point of the knife. If there are more glasses, they are to be placed in the order they'll be used, from the outside in (coffee cup, water glass, etc.).
Specialty utensils like shellfish forks or grapefruit spoons should only be brought out with the course. The same goes for dessert utensils. At this point any more utensils on the table just confuses people.
The napkin is a free-floater. If you have a fancy fold, place the napkin on your plate in the center to show it off (you didn't spend hours making cloth swans for them to go unnoticed). If you skipped the swans you can put napkins on the side dish or to the right of the glasses.
And voila! Dinner can be served and the guests will be impressed. If nothing else, a perfectly set table will remind you of the simple joys of ordering pizza.

Step By Step
If you just can't remember the order of the utensils, just know that they go alphabetically: Fork(s), Knife, Spoon (left to right, like you'd read).
Joel Klein
San Mateo, CA

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You'll Need
table
plates
chargers
salad plates
utensils:
salad forks
appetizer forks
dinner fork
butter knife
meat knife
teaspoon
tablespoon
soup spoon
dessert spoon or fork
specialty cutlery (grapefruit spoon, etc.)
glasses:
wine, water, cocktail
napkins
a special event

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Resources
The insiders' guide to American table manners

Etiquette advice from the makers of silverware

Readers' Digest guide to table settings

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